Tired of miscarriages

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Krista
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Tired of miscarriages

Post by Krista » Sun Nov 19, 2017 9:51 pm

Hi, i hope you all are fine. I need little help. It's been third time since i conceived naturally but each time it ends up in a miscarriage. I am so worried. I take care of myself. I take my calcium. I visit doctor frequently. I don't know what happens but my child doesn't sustain more than 4 months. It is so heartbreaking for me. I don't know what to do.

Katie1777
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Post by Katie1777 » Wed Nov 22, 2017 7:23 am

Hi, Krista. How are you doing? I am so sorry to hear that you had 3 miscarriages. I can imagine the heavy toll it must have taken on your well-being. Not knowing what had caused the problem is even worse, I guess. Don’t try to get sad over everything. I know, in time like this, it is very easy to feel depressed. However, you shouldn’t feel that way. Do something to learn how to think positively about things.
I have a sister who had a miscarriage. That is why, I really understand how you must feel like having experienced 3 of them. I guess you are being a little to hard on yourself. Just try to care of yourself, I mean your mental heath. Remember, you should learn that you have to be happy yourself. It is good to hear that you are taking calcium. Have you tried to diagnose what was causing the problem. Since you tired three times, and all three ended in MCS, why not go with surrogacy. I am not trying to dash your hopes. However, surrogacy can really be a good option for you.

Armani
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Post by Armani » Fri Nov 24, 2017 8:47 pm

Hello, Krista. Your story is so familiar to mine. I had two MCs and I know how awful it is. There's nothing worst than losing your baby. I've gone through different treatments but no success. The only option for me was surrogacy. Unfortunately, my husband didn't agree to try it out for a long time. We were talking a lot. Both my DH and me desperately wanted to become parents. But his mother thinks that surrogacy is unnatural. Thank God last month he agreed to go to the reproduction center to consult about surrogacy. I think it's a good sign. Hope we will become parents soon. I wish you the same! Good luck.

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Post by Meghan » Sat Dec 02, 2017 1:44 pm

Dear Krista, I am so sorry that you had to go through so much pain. It is indeed very devastating. I would advise you to get examined by a doctor. Yes it is not normal. There is something wrong. There may be numerous reasons to this. Consult a good gynecologist for this. Don’t worry. Take care.

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Post by pollutionisbad » Sat Dec 02, 2017 5:05 pm

Krista wrote:
Sun Nov 19, 2017 9:51 pm
Hi, i hope you all are fine. I need little help. It's been third time since i conceived naturally but each time it ends up in a miscarriage. I am so worried. I take care of myself. I take my calcium. I visit doctor frequently. I don't know what happens but my child doesn't sustain more than 4 months. It is so heartbreaking for me. I don't know what to do.
Hi there love. How are you doing today. The pain that you are going through must be horrible. Let me try and help you a little. I am sorry that i cannot offer more than words. Thats how far my capabilities reach. Now you have described what you do precisely. You have done everything honey. I cannot see why you should be sad about it. I know it is a little stupid to say this but... All that had to be done by you was done. The rest wasn't up to you. It just happened and there was no stopping it. Keep your head up and go to a fertility clinic. Its gonna be easier for you like that. God bless you and please dont let this get into you. You are worthy of happiness.

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Post by Lucy123 » Sun Dec 03, 2017 4:13 pm

Hey dear, Your story is quite heart touching, I am sorry for your loss. I wish I have right words for you. You should take proper health care of your body. Try to eat multivitamins. It might help. I will pray for you! Stay blessed.

callisy
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Post by callisy » Mon Dec 11, 2017 9:29 pm

Sorry for the heartbreak. But there must be reasons behind the miscarriages. They do not just happen that way. Your doctor should be in a good position to explain this. But since you have brought it to our attention. I think I can try to help. There are many reasons that lead to a miscarriage. One of them being Rhesus factor. Especially if you have ever aborted in your previous years. This might cause some distractions with your future pregnancies. Or maybe there might be some immune issues. Like your immunity trying to fight off your pregnancy. Thinking that it is a foreign substance. Or maybe your uterine walls are weak and cannot hold a baby. So from there I do not know where you fall. Ask your doctor more on the information.

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Post by ferry » Fri Dec 15, 2017 6:21 pm

This is a very sad post. I feel very sorry for you. Please have some hope dear. You have suffered a lot. Be calm dear. I cannot feel the same pain as you are having, still, I would advise you to be patient. You will soon have a baby beautiful baby in your life.

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Post by kmora » Sun Dec 17, 2017 6:11 pm

Hello dear, I am so sorry for your losses, I know what you've been through and I know how hard is to deal with it, but know that you are not alone and we are here to hear you and to support you in whatever you need. But I am a little concern about something in your case, you said that you've been through that for the third time now and the doctors said in every case that everything was normal, how is that even possible? for the first miscarriage it was obvious that something wasn't right, how do the miss it? is not right. I think that you should look for a specialist on genetics and infertility, because maybe your pregnancy couldn’t make it to term because of a genetic failure or something like that, or maybe is hormonal, or maybe there is something the doctors are missing, but know dear that is not "normal", and you need to look for a specialist t can tell you what your problem is and suggest treatments and solutions for you, that's the real point, the solution, because we are not doing anything if we don't know what to do after the diagnosis. I wish you good luck dear, keep the hopes up.

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Re: Tired of miscarriages

Post by silvia » Tue Dec 19, 2017 6:50 am

Hello Krista. Please have hope darling. You need to be strong dear. This happens with all of us. We shall face our difficulties strongly. We must scare them away. You shall not be too negative. Be positive darling.

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