This is a place where you can have discussions about adoption processes, the complications of such etc.
Make absolutely sure that somebody is there to visit/greet you when you bring your child home. If you adopt internationally, make sure people are waiting to welcome you at that airport. If you are coming home from the hospital or a foster home, make sure there are people who will come by and (appropriately) ooh and aah with you over your newest family member, whether the child is a few days old or 13. You need this. Trust me. We arrived from Haiti to an empty airport. The fact that we had just become parents did not feel special to us at all. Most people, when they inquire about your children, really do have good intentions. Some are just curious. Some are considering adoption. Some have already adopted. Some are grandparents awaiting a grandchild through adoption (we meet a lot of these). Some are from your child’s country of origin. Many are innocently curious children. Be kind. Give them the benefit of the doubt when they are asking questions—until they have proven that their intentions are not good. As the secrecy surrounding adoption diminishes, emotional territory that was once taboo is less so. As more and more of us tell the truth about our feelings, and those feelings resonate with others, they gain a legitimacy that can be comforting.
Oh, that so nice. Means you are sharing your love with that kid. Well, this is the humanity. Dear, don't forget to tell him that was adopted ones. And I just love his name. This is so cute name. May God give you reward of this. Good night.
Good for you. The less you listen the better. I hope the baby is healthy. Take good care of him. He is your son. No matter what someone else says, he will always be with you. For him you are his world. Don't ever break his heart.
Hey Buddy. How are you? I hope you are doing well.i just read your post.Its quiet informative.thanks for helping people.you're such an inspiration for other who hesitate to adopt Thank you so much for sharing such inspiration with others. You are very right. Adoption is quite effective and helpful for both the mother and the child. Tell her to talk with her partner as well. Take care a lot.
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