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by Lily44
Tue Jul 10, 2018 2:32 pm
Forum: Adoption
Topic: Poor kid
Replies: 92
Views: 2414

Re: Poor kid

Oh dear, this is terrible. It is very difficult to understand the society. This must be so hard on the kid. Your friend must be having a hard time too. If the in laws don't understand, the husband should. It is not the kids fault, neither your friends'. Hope things better for her.
by Lily44
Tue Jul 10, 2018 2:30 pm
Forum: Adoption
Topic: Its good
Replies: 252
Views: 3114

Re: Its good

Hey Hishys. Good to hear that. It is amazing that you are having a good time with your child. This decision proved to be wise for you. Moreover, you did such a big deed. Adoption is not easy. However, I am glad it is becoming fruitful for you.
by Lily44
Tue Jul 10, 2018 2:19 pm
Forum: Adoption
Topic: Plan ahead.
Replies: 80
Views: 2306

Re: Plan ahead.

Hello Athena. Hope you are fine. You are right. When a pair starts to become a family expenses do increase. That happens with your own kids too. Hence, adopted children are no different. Thanks for highlighting this.
by Lily44
Tue Jul 10, 2018 2:17 pm
Forum: Adoption
Topic: It turns nightmare
Replies: 239
Views: 4396

Re: It turns nightmare

You are right Jab. The best way is to tell it from the beginning. This way at least the child would know it. Getting to know it from someone else is troublesome. This is very sensitive. Hence, parents should be careful. It is better to let them know that they were given life by someone else.
by Lily44
Tue Jul 10, 2018 1:52 pm
Forum: Adoption
Topic: Single Mothers
Replies: 208
Views: 5486

Re: Single Mothers

Hey Reese. Hope you are doing well. This is indeed wrong. Many people want to just help the society. This is a way of doing so too. However, people think it does not represent family values. What about single mothers with their own kids. They grow up kids fine too. This is just stereotyping.
by Lily44
Tue Jul 10, 2018 1:50 pm
Forum: Adoption
Topic: Be honest!
Replies: 92
Views: 1503

Re: Be honest!

Hello Athena. Hope you are doing well. You have raised important points. Many people tend to ignore the. However, thanks for pointing them out. Specially for kids belonging to different cultures, it is essential to maintain their heredity. Though many people are unaware of it. They take it lightly t...
by Lily44
Tue Jul 10, 2018 1:33 pm
Forum: Adoption
Topic: I was adopted
Replies: 267
Views: 4929

Re: I was adopted

Hi Micha. This is amazing. Your parents did the most wise thing. It was nice of them to let you know early on. Moreover, there way of explaining you adoption was smart and effective too. Great that you were well aware of everything. Thanks for sharing it here. I hope other parents can make use of it...
by Lily44
Tue Jul 10, 2018 1:29 pm
Forum: Adoption
Topic: My adopted son got to know that he is adopted.
Replies: 250
Views: 4273

Re: My adopted son got to know that he is adopted.

Hi Krista. I am sorry to hear about this. I hope your son is fine now. This is a very difficult situation for kids. Parents should tell them from the beginning. Give him time. I hope he will gradually understand. Keep showering him with love.
by Lily44
Tue Jul 10, 2018 1:27 pm
Forum: Adoption
Topic: Should you tell your adopted child that he/she is adopted?
Replies: 120
Views: 1789

Re: Should you tell your adopted child that he/she is adopted?

I think it is best to let them know. They should not be in the dark about this. The best way is to let them know since the beginning. They should know that they have two set of parents. One who birthed them and one who brought them up. So, this way it will be is helps. easier for them to understand....
by Lily44
Mon Jun 25, 2018 4:23 pm
Forum: Adoption
Topic: They might claim the child
Replies: 184
Views: 3807

Re: They might claim the child

Hey Kifeli. You are right. An anonymous egg donor won't be right. Go for one that she knows. At least you can guarantee that she won't ask for the baby again. I hope she makes the right decision. Good luck to her.