Ectopic Mom

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chris
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Ectopic Mom

Post by chris » Mon Nov 20, 2017 2:48 pm

Hi girls. I'm new here but extremely need advice.
My first pregnancy was ectopic and I lost my left tube. In a year I experienced another ectopic pregnancy but that time it occurred in the right tube. I had a nervous breakdown and of course, lost my 4-week babe. The third time I became pregnant was again ectopic. The right tube was saved by doctors but I’m afraid of getting pregnant again. Can I somehow treat my tube or do something at all? How to avoid ectopic pregnancy? I don't want to think about artificial insemination till there is a chance that I can have a normal pregnancy.

Amanda
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Post by Amanda » Thu Nov 30, 2017 3:33 pm

Hey Chris! What happend with you is very tragic. The worse grief a woman gets in her life is loosing a child. I know it takes like forever just for that one egg to be fertilized. Ectopic pregnancy is very painful. It comes with an abnormal vaginal bleeding. Since you fear invasive procedure artificial insemination cannot be your choice of treatment. Therefore, I would recommend you to give a thought about surrogacy. Your body is not in a state where you can bear a pregnancy now.It's a big risk. Think about it.

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Post by Lucy123 » Sun Dec 03, 2017 4:59 pm

Hey, dear, I am sorry for your loss. Ectopic pregnancy is really painful. Your body is really weak for the child. Therefore I recommend you to go for surrogacy, It is the only way to get a child. You can consult a doctor, Doctor can find a best surrogate mother for you. I hope you are understanding. I wish you best of luck for your baby. I will pray for you.

chris
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Post by chris » Tue Dec 19, 2017 12:12 pm

Thank you Lucy and thank you Amanda. Surrogacy is a very complicated process and takes much money we just don't have. I wonder if there is a chance to have any treatment to have successful pregnancy later. I'm not looking for ivf, icsi and other artificial methods.

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Post by silvia » Tue Dec 19, 2017 3:04 pm

Chris, you have gone through a really difficult situation. The worst thing is loosing a child. This is really unbearable for a mother. I would advise you to go for surrogacy. This may help you. Otherwise, the decision is up to you. I hope you make a good decision. Take care!

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Post by kmora » Thu Dec 21, 2017 5:07 am

Hello dear, how are you? I am very sorry for your situation, you really have been through a lot in a short period of time, and it was nearly a death experience because ectopic pregnancies can be really dangerous, but thanks to god that you are safe and sound to keep moving on with your life and keep trying to have your beautiful family. I will be honest with you, I really recommend you to stop trying to conceive naturally, because with your background of ectopic pregnancies you are very lucky to be alive, so please don't try it again, there must be some problem with the implantation of the egg that it can't reach the uterus and stays in the tube, so please stop trying and do it with IVF, doing it that way you ensure that the egg gets implant in the right place and you are also ensure your safety by not putting your life in risk for another ectopic pregnancy, I think it's best to have you alive and trying for IVF than dead so please think about it and look for a specialist who can guide you on that.

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Post by Shane P. » Fri Dec 29, 2017 4:54 am

It's really sad that you have to go through this and that too thrice. I am really sorry for you. But dear if it's third time in a row. You must consult an experience doctor regarding this matter. You must search where you can find one who has dealt with such situations may be in your city or even near your city. Even if you have to travel. You must find out the reason . Other wise you have rare chances to become pregnant. Please do not waste your time . Find a good expert who can give you the best advice. Best of luck.

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Post by Ms Trina Segovia » Sun Jan 14, 2018 6:04 pm

The worse grief a woman gets in her life is loosing a child. I know it takes like forever just for that one egg to be fertilized. Ectopic pregnancy is very painful. It comes with an abnormal vaginal bleeding. Since you fear invasive procedure artificial insemination cannot be your choice of treatment. Therefore, I would recommend you to give a thought about surrogacy. Your body is not in a state where you can bear a pregnancy now.It's a big risk. Think about it.

Ms Solita Sierra
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Post by Ms Solita Sierra » Thu Jan 18, 2018 2:55 pm

Chris, you have gone through a really difficult situation. The worst thing is loosing a child. This is really unbearable for a mother. I would advise you to go for surrogacy. This may help you. Otherwise, the decision is up to you. I hope you make a good decision. Take care!

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Post by Cassey James » Sun Jan 21, 2018 10:01 am

You're a very strong woman Chris. I hold immense respect for you and I hope your pain goes away. I would advise you to keep multiple consultants on the matter. Don't just rely on ones advise. Keep consulting and hopefully something will come up. You have my blessings.

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